One-day Experiment
Catherine Marshall tells of the time she decided to do a one-day experiment.
Oh, it really was an eye-opener for her. You see, she had a problem common
to most of us. She found it too easy to be critical of others. Well, one
morning as she meditated on the verse, "So don't criticize each other anymore,"
(Romans 14:13 TLB) she became aware of the Lord nudging her to not be critical
for one day.
Of course she tried to shove it off. But she couldn't get it out
of her mind. So she tried to rationalize her critical attitude. After
all, aren't we to use the intelligence God gave us to analyze and
evaluate---even though the results is not always positive? The nudging
continued right through the debate going on in her mind until she finally
agreed to give the experiment a try---but just for the one day would she
fast from criticism.
Through most of the morning she kept wondering what the result would
be at the end of the day. The lunch with her husband and friends was normal
except for the unusual silence of one person---Catherine. She had not committed
to silence, just to not criticizing. It surprised her to realize how much
of her conversation was usually critical an judgmental. She was silent
only because she couldn't contribute to the conversation without judging.
So, she kept quiet and no one seemed to notice. A sting to the pride as
well.
It wasn't until mid-afternoon that something special began to happen.
The floodgate of ideas began to open and creative thoughts flowed through
in a way she hadn't experienced in a long time.
At day's end she marveled at all that had transpired simply because
she refused to entertain a critical attitude. A letter to encourage a friend,
insight into praying for a college student, seeking her child's forgiveness,
all filtered through her freely because there was no negative thoughts
to stop them.
Catherine's one-day experiment became a lifetime habit.
Catherine Marshall, Retold by Marilyn K. McAuley
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