1.
When your guy says it is over,
you hear:
"Time to
move on."
"It's not
over. He's not breaking up with me."
"Maybe we
can salvage some sort of friendship."
2.
He says, "We need to talk,"
and you say:
"I'll clear
out the afternoon."
"Okay, honey,
maybe later or this weekend."
"Uh-oh,
not good times for sure!"
3.
Rumors are flying that he's
cheating, you
confront
him and ask him straight out what the deal is.
say, "Never,
he wouldn't cheat on me."
wait to
hear some more, then go to him.
4.
When he's talking, you've been
known to
look him
in the eye.
watch TV
and chew gum.
let your
eyes wander the room and check your watch.
5.
He mentions the prom but then
seems to lose interest. You
ask him
if he is still interested in going.
just assume
he'll bring it up again.
wait a bit,
then forget about it.
6.
When your boyfriend seems sad
on the phone but says he's "fine," you
go over
just to make sure.
get mad
that he won't tell you what's bothering him.
call later
to check in.
7.
Lately, he's been canceling
plans at the last minute. You wonder:
"Maybe he
is losing interest."
"Oh my gosh,
he's cheating on me!"
"What am
I doing wrong?"
8.
You spend lots of time with
his buds but he rarely hangs with your girls. You assume
maybe he
is hesitant to be around your buddies.
he hates
your friends.
you're ready
to share the time, so should he.
9.
He wants some space after a
bad breakup before getting involved. You think
you're interested
in more than just being his girlfriend and tell him you'll wait.
this stinks-he
must be an emotional wimp.
maybe he'll
get over her and then you can move in for the kill.
10.
Your friends say he has a bad
rep, but he swears his slate is clean. You
take their
advice and wait for him to make the next move.
think,
that's right-you're just another one of his girls.
tell him
it is time for him to prove himself.