1. When your guy says it is over, you hear:
"Time
to move on."
"It's
not over. He's not breaking up with me."
"Maybe
we can salvage some sort of friendship."
2. He says, "We need to talk," and you say:
"I'll
clear out the afternoon."
"Okay,
honey, maybe later or this weekend."
"Uh-oh,
not good times for sure!"
3. Rumors are flying that he's cheating, you:
confront
him and ask him straight out what the deal is.
say,
"Never, he wouldn't cheat on me."
wait
to hear some more, then go to him.
4. When he's talking, you've been known to:
look
him in the eye.
watch
TV and chew gum.
let
your eyes wander the room and check your watch.
5. He mentions the prom but then seems to lose interest. You:
ask
him if he is still interested in going.
just
assume he'll bring it up again.
wait
a bit, then forget about it.
6. When your boyfriend seems sad on the phone but says he's "fine," you:
go
over just to make sure.
get
mad that he won't tell you what's bothering him.
call
later to check in.
7. Lately, he's been canceling plans at the last minute. You wonder:
"Maybe
he is losing interest."
"Oh
my gosh, he's cheating on me!"
"What
am I doing wrong?"
8. You spend lots of time with his buds but he rarely hangs with your girls. You assume:
maybe
he is hesitant to be around your buddies.
he
hates your friends.
you're
ready to share the time, so should he.
9. He wants some space after a bad breakup before getting involved. You think:
you're interested in more than just being his girlfriend and tell him you'll wait.
this
stinks-he must be an emotional wimp.
maybe
he'll get over her and then you can move in for the kill.
10. Your friends say he has a bad rep, but he swears his slate is clean. You:
take
their advice and wait for him to make the next move.
think,
that's right-you're just another one of his girls.
tell
him it is time for him to prove himself.